Keeping Both Parents Involved with School After a Separation
Notify the school of your divorce.
This will ensure that all school report cards, events, and notices are sent to both addresses instead of just one.
Some school information may only be received by one parent.
In the event of this happening, it’s important to uphold transparent communication and inform the other parent of any notices the child may come home with on a day they spend with you.
Ensure both parents are helping the child with homework and school projects.
Although it may not seem like the most fun or important activity, it is crucial to make sure that both parents are fairly involved with their child’s academic activities. Sharing this burden will give both parents more time to engage in play and fun events with the child.
4. Figure out what parent-teacher conference style works for you.
If you and your ex-spouse would like to attend a parent teacher conference together, that is an option the school can arrange. However, the school can also accommodate two separate times for a conference if that is more comfortable or convenient for you.
Your child’s school life should not be a source of stress for you regarding your divorce! As long as you work with the school and set some ground rules with your co-parent, your child’s school activities and your involvement should be a source of pride and fun for you, not stress! When going through the divorce and custody process, talk to your attorney about a clause that allows equal access to school records and information.
