Navigating Thanksgiving Post-Divorce: A Mom and Divorce Lawyer's Perspective

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Nov 15

Navigating Thanksgiving Post-Divorce: A Mom and Divorce Lawyer's Perspective

As a mom and a divorce lawyer, I've seen firsthand how the holiday season can be particularly challenging for families going through a divorce. The added stress of custody arrangements, financial concerns, and emotional turmoil can make it difficult to enjoy the festivities.

Here are some tips to help you navigate Thanksgiving post-divorce:

1. Prioritize Your Children's Well-being:

Open Communication: Talk to your children about their feelings and expectations for the holiday.
Create New Traditions: Establish new traditions that are special to your family.
Minimize Conflict: Avoid arguing or making negative comments about your ex-partner in front of the children.

2. Plan Ahead:

Coordinate Schedules: Work with your ex-partner to create a shared custody schedule.
Communicate Effectively: Use a shared calendar or app to keep track of important dates and times.
Prepare for Potential Challenges: Anticipate potential conflicts and develop strategies to resolve them calmly.

3. Practice Self-Care:

Take Time for Yourself: Schedule time for relaxation and self-care activities.
Seek Support: Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist for emotional support.
Avoid Overindulging: While it's tempting to overeat and drink, be mindful of your physical and emotional well-being.

4. Focus on Gratitude:

Practice Gratitude: Take time to reflect on the things you're grateful for.
Show Appreciation: Express your gratitude to your children, family, and friends.

Remember, you're not alone. Many families are navigating the challenges of divorce during the holiday season. By following these tips and seeking support, you can create a positive and memorable Thanksgiving for your family.