How To Tell Your Partner You Want A Divorce
Use “I” statements, not “you” statements… A.) it will help to avoid unnecessary drama and B.) this isn’t an intervention; this is something you are doing for yourself (and possibly children).
Current Reading Obsessions for Business, Self-Improvement, and Fun
I try to always read something that is directly related to the practice or business of law, or to being an entrepreneur in general, and a mindless book that’s purely for entertainment purposes.
Have a Piece of Cake
So please - take that victory lap whenever you deserve one, and chances are that’s more often than you allow yourself. Cut yourself a slice of cake when it’s not a birthday.
Will Your Relationship Survive?
“I think the pandemic exacerbated existing problems within our relationship by forcing us to live together in what I’ve described as a ‘pressure cooker.’”
My Juggling Act
“Lawyer moms — who in our view encompass all women lawyers with caregiving roles — are accustomed to high wire juggling acts.”
It's true. I'm a juggler. I'm a lawyer, a business-owner, a wife, and a caretaker. I'm a mom of a 16-month-old vibrant daughter. I wear a lot of hats.
Extra, Extra, Read All About It!
NEWSFLASH: Massachusetts Bar Exam will be conducted remotely this fall!
This sure would've helped me a TON when I sat for the bar exam in a huge Boston exhibition center.
Say Cheese!
They can hear you smile on the other side of the phone.
This is something that was taught to me during a customer service seminar many years ago. I've implemented that practice ever since. Attitude can come across in your tone.
Are YOU Brave Enough to Wear Stripes?
I refuse to give up stripes. Here’s why – I believe in self-love and being my most authentic version. Women are continuously warned that horizontal stripes are unflattering, add ten pounds, make you look wider, whatever. After realizing that stripes had become one of my signature looks, my mother once begged me to trade them in for polka-dots. Sorry, mom.
Just When We Thought it Couldn’t Get Any Worse
“COVID-19 hasn’t left any aspects of our lives untouched, and for those seeking to make changes to their marital status, it’s just another unpleasant ripple effect to endure.”
When I went to law school, we certainly didn’t practice telephonic hearings. I realize that the legal system is drastically changing and may never be the same going forward.
Just the Facts, Ma’am
One of the biggest benefits of having an attorney represent you in a divorce is being able to step away from a high conflict situation to let your attorney do the hard work.