Should I Accept a Promotion Right Before a Divorce?
I’ve been asked this question before by clients, and it’s an interesting question. People may feel reluctant to accept a big promotion when a divorce is pending or they think they may be getting a divorce soon. If you think you may be on the hook for alimony and child support payments, you may be wondering if it would be better to decline a promotion so your income won’t be higher when you’re going through the divorce proceedings.
How Much Will a Divorce Cost Me?
It depends. No one wants to hear that answer to a question as pressing as anticipated costs for an upcoming divorce. However, there are some factors that can help determine whether you’re looking at a more expensive divorce than you might have expected.
Infidelity… What Does it Mean for Your Divorce?
Infidelity… it’s a scary word for anyone in a monogamous relationship or marriage to hear. 1 out of 5 men have reported that they have cheated on their partner while married (General Social Survey). Uncovering infidelity can be an emotionally devastating experience and oftentimes leads to divorce. The anger and hurt that accompanies finding out your partner broke their marriage vows can leave many people furious and ready to take their partner for all their worth… it’s only fair, right???
Why You Need a Prenuptial Agreement
When Mel Gibson married Robyn Moore in 1980, he was just beginning his rise to fame with his role in Mad Max. The pair split after 26 years of marriage, and it took five years for the pair to finalize their divorce. Gibson’s assets were worth $900 million at the time of divorce, and they had not entered a prenuptial agreement.
Book Recommendation: In the Company of Women
As summer is coming to a close, I have the perfect book for every woman to read to get motivated and inspired as we head into fall! In the Company of Women by Grace Bonney is a New York Times bestseller, and for good reason! This book is a compilation of over 100 stories of successful women in various field- from artists to professors to entrepreneurs. The photography in the book is also beautiful- Don’t you love when a book is as aesthetically pleasant as the words in it??
Luxury Staples Every Woman Should Have!
I’m not going to lie to you… I am a certified shopaholic. I 100% swear by retail therapy, and I am absolutely obsessed with luxury staple items. I love pieces that are a quality investment, not trendy seasonal pieces that will end up hiding in the back of your closet for years before you finally find it again and wonder What was I thinking?? Today, I want to share with you guys some of my favorite luxury pieces that you can be sure will never go out of style!
Signs it Might be Time for a Divorce
So, you’ve found yourself googling if it’s time for a divorce. Whether you’ve been together for three years or thirty, there are some telltale signs that it may be time for a divorce.
Can I get a Restraining Order?
Sometimes, we have to take legal action to protect yourself or your children from an abuser. Learn more about 209A’s and the protections it allows for you or your child.
A Happy, Healthy Divorce… Is it Possible?
Here are the facts: 20% of marriages end in divorce within 5 years, and 48% of marriages end by the 20-year mark. Divorce is never a topic anyone wants to think about, but chances are, if you’re reading this blog, you’re being confronted with this topic.
Who Owns What Friends After a Divorce?
While your divorce attorney will help you divide all your joint assets, time spent with children, and property, there is one thing that cannot be divided up just as neatly: your friends.
Staying Friends With Your Ex After a Divorce
Once you go through a divorce, it can be hard to figure out where things stand with your former spouse. Your spouse used to be your partner and best friend for however many years, and while things have certainly changed, you may be wondering what kind of place they have in your life now.
Best Luxury Items to Celebrate Your Divorce!
If you’re anything like me, you love retail therapy! After a big win in a recent divorce case, I immediately got myself the cutest pair of Chanel earrings. I love retail therapy because each item I buy reminds me of when I was going through a hard time in my life and how I was so strong and overcame it! So, while you might be grieving the death of your marriage right now, spend some time shopping for the perfect gift for yourself once your divorce is finalized to relieve some of the stress and think about how relieved you will feel to know you made it!
How Women Get Screwed in Divorce
Divorce is not an easy, pleasant, or stress-free affair. To make matters worse, after a divorce a woman can expect her quality of living to go down 72% percent, while a man’s quality of life increases by 10%.* We don’t let that happen at the Egan Law Center.
What Does Divorce Mean for a Stay-at-Home Mom?
Unfortunately, even in 2021, stay-at-home moms can be looked down upon in society. However, this does not mean that you will be left destitute in the event of a divorce. In the state of Massachusetts, divorces need to be fair and equitable. While this does not mean you are guaranteed a 50/50 division of your assets, it does mean that you should not be penalized for your choice to stay at home and raise your family.
How to Prepare Before Meeting with Your Divorce Attorney
The most important piece of advice I can give you before meeting with a divorce attorney is to not worry about this meeting or feel anxiety about it. Your divorce attorney has dealt with so many divorce cases before that they know all the right questions to ask and will put you at ease as you go through this stressful time in your life.
How to Keep Your Children in Mind While You’re Getting a Divorce
Although many partners going through a divorce are usually extremely worried about the effect of their divorce on their children, research shows that it is not the divorce itself, but the fighting that goes on between parents that can cause things like low self-esteem, poor academic performance, and depression. Keeping this in mind, here are some of the most important tips to keep in mind to make sure your divorce is as easy for your child as it could be.
Is My Husband a Narcissist?
It can take years, even decades, to recognize the signs of narcissistic personality in your significant other. Many times the signs of narcissism do not become clear until the added responsibilities and duties of marriage begin. In fact, some of the telltale signs, such as confidence and assertiveness can actually be seen as positives, until they start to get out of control.